R15 miles in Nepal how to share

You will quickly find out that everything goes a little slower in Nepal. The clocks tick differently there. And that's just as well! Why should one also be a slave to time ?! Don't get upset if things don't go the way you'd like. That doesn't help anyone. Just accept that you are in a foreign culture and learn to live with this calm and serenity as well.

In general, you should try to observe the following rules in order to respect the social and cultural behavior in Nepal. This section is not intended to serve as an instruction. It is only about the respectful treatment of a culture that is foreign to us. Mutual respect also requires that you, as a guest, adapt to the local conditions.

When tourists allow themselves everything

Whenever I visit Nepal, I notice that there are even more tourists. It's nice to see that a lot of people are interested in Nepal. But unfortunately I also constantly notice that most tourists simply behave in an unbearable manner. Whether at temples, in shops and restaurants or on the street - the behavior offends me and the locals.

It often happens that tourists - especially young ones - behave in Nepal as if they were in their home country. They run around half-naked, drive prices down with their negotiations and act as if they owned the land. Due to the great purchasing power of foreign currencies, tourists are quickly becoming more exuberant. They are commanding locals around in an outrageous tone, making them feel of inferior worth. Negotiations are tough, even though it's only about 50-100 rupees in part - that's just 50 cents. For us, these 50 cents have no significant value, while the smallest shop owners are dependent on every rupee.

Culturally and socially, Nepal cannot be compared with the western world. Some behaviors that are considered harmless or "normal" in the western world are not welcomed by society in Nepal. Of course, this also applies the other way around. This respect is the least you can show the locals.

Behave properly in Nepal

dress

In the tourist district of Thamel, it doesn't really matter what you're wearing. There the tourists are among themselves anyway. Nevertheless, women in Nepal should keep their shoulders, knees and waist covered as much as possible. Especially if you are outside of Thamel, or rather outside of the big cities.

Locals with less contact with tourists might find this very provocative. Unfortunately, in the times of Instagram and Co., the more respectful dressing is hardly noticed anymore. It is better to immortalize yourself sexy räkeld in a photo at the temple, because that is more important than respecting the temple.

social behaviour
  • Public displays of affection between men and women - from holding hands to kissing - are not welcomed in Nepal. A rethinking can be observed here, especially among young Nepalese. On the other hand, it is very common for same-sex men to hold hands together and huddle on their shoulders in the streets. This does not mean that they are gay!
  • Touching the heads of adults with hands is not acceptable! With children this is fine.
  • “Keeping face” and “not losing face” play an important role in Nepal as in all of Asia. For this reason, too, the Nepalese show themselves to be very generous, even though they cannot actually afford it.
  • Never use your left hand to greet, wave, give or accept objects! The left hand is considered unclean in Nepal!
  • Everything that has touched personal saliva is considered impure. For example, you never share your spoon or use it to scoop food out of a communal pot.
  • Always try to sit down so that the soles of your feet are never pointed at another person!
  • When entering a house or temple, always remember to take off your shoes!
  • Please only take photos of locals with their permission! In Nepal, too, people have the right to their own image. It's horrible to see tourists disrespectfully targeting the locals with their cameras.
temple
  • Please dress appropriately: no headgear and sunglasses, shoulders and knees should be covered!
  • Never enter a temple with shoes on!
  • No photos!

If you accidentally disregard one of the rules, it will not hold you against Nepalese. Ultimately, the locals are happy that you are trying to adapt to the Nepalese culture. The respectful approach is highly regarded.

If you have any further questions, feel free to write to me. I'm looking forward to your message.

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Note:
All information corresponds to information from our own personal experience and can therefore at no time guarantee 100% accuracy and completeness. The information was written with a clear conscience and is only used as an initial information aid for travel preparation.